Buying gifts for mom

Experiences of a hyper-sexed teenager

Eddy Elmer

The University of Toronto Varsity, 30 November 1995

My annual Yuletide purchasing ritual began when I reached the third floor of Eaton's—the Ladies' Undergarments and Hosiery Department.  My mother's wish list was firmly in hand (yes, a list—we're a very progressive family).  At the top of the list: a new "silk nightgown or something like that."

This was a scary prospect, but, nonetheless, something I had to do, because mom is mom, and right now she's probably doing my Christmas shopping and, whenever I don't adhere to her list, she quits doing my laundry.

So, there I was, going through the racks, trying not to look too obvious about the whole affair, when a saleslady, adorned in all her cosmetic glory and hair extensions, glided up to me.

"Can I help you, dear?" she asked.

"Uhm, no thanks.  I'm just looking."

"For what, dear?" she asked, beginning to belittle me.  Things never change—when you look like a kid, you're treated like a kid.

Gee lady, let's see.  I'm surrounded by bras and teddies.  What does it look like I'm looking for?  A maple syrup spigot?

She looked at me as if for some reason I had gotten lost on my way to Beddings, Home Electronics, or some other, more "appropriate" department—as if the lingerie department was a sacred shrine of lace and garters, never to be seen by innocent eyes such as mine.

The Ivanka Trump look-a-like here soon realised that a waffle iron, or pillow case, or Isotoner slippers were not on my shopping list, so she decided to show me some more "items".

"This piece here, is what we call a three-quarter length negligee.  Made in France.  Women like it a lot. And here, we have a nice half-length number from Donna Karan, machine-washable."

At this stage, I loved the way she grabbed each piece of underwear, looked to make sure we were alone, and carefully put each up against a mannequin.  It was as if she thought that at this age, I had no idea what was what and what went where.

Anyway, 20 minutes passed.  We must have seen about 50 or so different garments.   With each one, I re-learned something about female anatomy and what Ivanka called "support architecture."  I must admit that I really got into all of this—that is, looking for something nice to buy for mom.  (But Ivanka feared I was getting into something else altogether.)

As I was admiring more clothing, feeling between my fingers the quality of the fabrics, Ivanka raised her left eyebrow and stepped back ever so slightly.  Oh great, I thought to myself.  First she thought I was lost, then she thought I had never seen a woman before, and now she thinks I'm a cross-dressing pervert, dying to get on Jerry Springer and use Eaton's name in retail-forsaken vain.

Funny how I was being looked at as a pervert, while nobody felt anything was wrong with the middle-aged nativity scene window decorators who dressed up the Three Wise Men in almost full sheer pajamas for the new Calvin Klein collection.

My palms turned clammy, my forehead got sweaty, and my pulse quickened.  All I wanted to do was buy a stupid gift for mom, but here I was, my every action being psychoanalysed.

But I didn't really give Ivanka the satisfaction.  I was buying lingerie for my mother, and I was damn proud of it.  So I finally settled on a light blue silk nightgown from something called "The House of Guenevere."

"With every purchase of $50 or more, you get a free tote bag.  Did you know that?"

Oh goody, I thought to myself, she probably wants me to get that so I can shove the nightgown in it and keep my inappropriate habits secret from the public.

"Let me see if I can find one for you, dear.  You wait here.  Don't go anywhere."

Geez.  What was I?  A cocker spaniel?  But of course, since she already thought I was a freak, better not tempt me to roam the entire department and eventually get into the hosiery section.

On her way back, Ivanka grabbed me gently by the arm and took me over to the cash register.   Yup, make sure I don't knock anything down.  You know how unruly us hyper-sexual teenagers can be when we see so many naked mannequins.

"And how will you be paying for this today, dear?"

"American Express," I grumbled.

She carefully examined the card, ran it through the terminal, and then looked at her screen for a second.  I bet she was trying to remember my phone number so she could call mom and tell her what a bad boy I'd been.

"Thank you for shopping at Eaton's.  Merry Christmas."

"Yeeeeeah, whatever."  As I walked out of the store, the salespeople all started staring and whispering.

But I didn't care.  At least mom will be getting a nice gift, my laundry will get done, and I'll have plenty of experience when it comes time to do this all over again.

Oh dear God, all over again... Somebody please spike the eggnog!


Eddy Elmer will provide detailed maps of the women's undergarments department at Eaton's for any interested holiday shoppers.

Copyright © 1995, by Eddy M. Elmer

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