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Relationship Tests and Attachment Questionnaires

The following are various tests which you may find useful for personal interest, relationship building, counseling and therapy, research, or academic study. I have tried to restrict this list to tests which I think are important, widely-used, and grounded in valid and well-established theory. As I come across other useful tests, I will add them to this list. If you notice that any of the links don't work (or, worse yet, that any sites require a fee!), please send me a short note.

CAUTION

The information provided by the following sites is for educational purposes only and does not replace discussions with appropriate counselling professionals. If you or someone you know is experiencing difficulties of a psychological nature, see your family physician (alternatively, see the Professional Associations section of my Psychology Resources links, which provides phone numbers of organisations that will be glad to direct you to the appropriate resources).


For background information on attachment theory (on which some of the following tests are founded), see my Attachment Theory Resources (to be added soon) and Interpersonal Relations Resources (currently under "Social Psychology). For guidelines on how to examine and think critically about psychological theories, see the Bolton Institute of Psychology's workbook, Assessing Theories in Psychology. For more detailed information on these tests, including psychometric data, see the Measurement Excellence and Training Resource Information Center, the Mental Measurements Yearbook (Buros Institute), and James Neill's Summaries of Tools, Instruments & Questionnaires.
 

Adult Attachment Interview (AAI) (Mary Main)
http://www.psychology.sunysb.edu/attachment/measures/measures_index.html
(Click on "Adult Attachment Interview" and "Adult Attachment Interview: Obtaining Good Interviews")
This is a comprehensive interview, given by a trained psychologist, to assess an adult's attachment style (based on attachment theory). It is generally more comprehensive and objective than the self-report measures listed above. This document contains full instructions and protocol for test administration.

Attachment Research at Stony Brook
http://www.psychology.sunysb.edu/attachment/
The Measurement Library features: Scoring the Ainsworth Strange Situation; Secure Base Behavior at Home: Ainsworth Baltimore Scores; Maternal Sensitivity: Ainsworth Baltimore Scores; The Q-Sort Method in Attachment Research; Attachment Q-Set: Items and Information; Secure Base Supports Q-sets: Macaque Mothers and Infants; Adult Attachment Interview: Questions and Procedure; and Overview: Adult Secure Base Use and Support Scales.

Attachment Style and Sibling Relationships Test
(R. Chris Fraley, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign)

http://www.web-research-design.net/sibling/siblingstudy.htm
Part of an ongoing study on the assessment of twin and non-twin sibling relationships. Based on attachment theory, the test attempts to assess how your attachment style interacts with the way you relate with your siblings. To increase the accuracy and validity of your results, you can use this test in conjunction with the other attachment tests listed on this page.

Close Relationships Questionnaire (aka Experiences in Close Relationships - Revised)
(R. Chris Fraley, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign)

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl or via http://www.yourpersonality.net
An online test adapted from the well-known Experiences in Close Relationships Inventory (ECL) by Brennan, Clark, & Shaver (1998). The test measures your attachment style (for more information on attachment, please see the articles listed in the Attachment Theory Resources section of this site (to be added). To increase the accuracy and validity of your results, you can use this test in conjunction with the other attachment tests listed on this page, including:

Note: These are self-administered questionnaires and, as such, they are not the most objective measures of attachment style; the more accurate measure of attachment should only be assessed by a psychologist with sufficient training in attachment theory.

Jealousy Test - Revised: Version for Heterosexual Men
(from Yahoo Health, Psychology Today, and PsychTests.com)

http://psychologytoday.psychtests.com/tests/jealousy_men_r_access.html
Measures strength of jealousy in various jealousy-inducing situations and the extent to which such feelings are damaging your relationship. Measures over all jealousy and tries to determine whether your jealous feelings may be stemming (in whole or in part) from your own dependency, control, or self esteem-issues. Subscores include: jealous thinking patterns; jealous behaviour; dependency issues; self-esteem issues; and control issues. Offers suggestions on dealing with jealousy. Useful for personal interest, as a relationship building tool, and for counselling and therapy purposes. Statistical analysis shows the test to be valid and reliable; it has been validated on 5,000 individuals (another validation study is in progress). Also available:

Personality and Perception of Faces Test
(R. Chris Fraley, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign)

http://www.yourpersonality.net/affect/
An interactive test designed to test  your attachment style in different relationships as well as the way in which you perceive emotional cues. The 10-minute test asks you to: 1. rate your personality in the context of different relationships; and 2. watch several movie clips of people expressing emotions. Fun and informative. To increase the accuracy and validity of your results, you can use this test in conjunction with the other attachment tests listed on this page.

Relationship Attachment Test
(from Psychology Today and PsychTests.com)

http://psychologytoday.psychtests.com/tests/relationship_attachment_access.html
Rooted in attachment theory, this test measures whether you have co-dependency issues in romantic relationships, including: losing sight of your identity; fear of rejection; focus on others (pouring all energy and attention to partner's needs); and a desire to please. Provides an over all dependency score as well as subscores, a personalised interpretation, and tips on overcoming dependency issues. Useful for personal interest, relationship building, and counselling and therapy purposes. This test is still being evaluated for statistical validity and reliability; therefore, use it in conjunction with the other attachment tests on this page.

Relationship Structures Test
(R. Chris Fraley, University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign)

http://www.yourpersonality.net/relstructures/
Based on attachment theory, this test you assess the way in which you mentally represent the important people in your life (see also here). The test provides you with a summary of your attachment style to four people who've played an important role in your life (good or bad). To increase the accuracy and validity of your results, you can use this test in conjunction with the other attachment tests listed on this page.

Relationship Satisfaction Test - Revised
(from Psychology Today and PsychTests.com)

http://psychologytoday.psychtests.com/tests/relationship_satisfaction_r_access.html
Some couples feel that both partners are fully aware of how their relationship is functioning and how happy (or not) both partners are. Often, however, they deceive themselves, ignore certain realities, or simply have blind spots. "The relationship satisfaction test is designed to evaluate various aspects of interaction in a couple. Unlike other relationship/love tests, the one you are about to take is not based on value judgments about how a relationship is supposed to work. Some behavior patterns are generally unhealthy, either for the relationship or for the individuals involved. However, in other aspects, what works for one couple can be a disaster for another." This test measures how happy you are with your relationship and points out areas that are important to you, potential problem areas, and areas that need work. Provides a general satisfaction score along with subscores: feeling fulfilled, appreciated, and loved; feelings and love for partner; support and security; meeting the need to communicate and share; decision-making and division of responsibility; conflict resolution; sex life; compatibility of goals; spending time together; social life of the couple; parenting issues (if applicable); freedom; dependency issues; and financial issues. Provides detailed, personalised interpretation as well as helpful tips for working on problem areas. Useful for personal interest, relationship courses/workshops, and counselling and therapy purposes. Statistical analysis shows the test to be valid and reliable; it has been validated on 50,000 individuals (another validation study is in progress).

Relationships and the 16 Types
(from The Personality Page, by BSM Consulting)

http://www.personalitypage.com/relationships.html
Describes the strengths and weaknesses that each type exhibits in relationships.

Self Disclosure Test
(from Psychology Today and PsychTests.com)

http://psychologytoday.psychtests.com/tests/self_disclosure_general_access.html
Measures how open you are with disclosing to others your feelings, thoughts, opinions, and experiences. Provides an over all self disclosure score as well as subscores measuring openness with family, friends, acquaintances, and strangers. Popular for personal interest, relationship building, and counselling and therapy purposes. Statistical analysis shows the test to be valid and reliable; it has been validated on 5,000 individuals (another validation study in progress). Individuals in romantic relationships can use the next test in conjunction with this one.

Self Disclosure Test for Couples - Revised
(from Psychology Today and PsychTests.com)

http://psychologytoday.psychtests.com/tests/self_disclosure_couples_r_access.html
Measures how open you are with disclosing your feelings, thoughts, opinions, and experiences to your romantic partner. Provides an over all self disclosure score with interpretation as well as subscores measuring how vulnerable you are willing to be with your partner and your level of comfort with conflict. Popular for personal interest, relationship building, and counselling and therapy purposes. Statistical analysis shows the test to be valid and reliable; it has been validated on 13,000 individuals. Use this test in conjunction with the one listed above.


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